So, it’s been a bit, and that has to do with only one thing, which is my stomach. Of course.
I planned this great trip for my birthday. My parents and sister and friends were all coming down to celebrate at my favorite place, Allegany State Park! Camping and hiking and fishing and bonfires…what could go wrong??
Friday was ok. I did a little fishing with Mark, then Carey arrived, and we tried to make a fire but couldn’t really get it going. We went to bed early…big day tomorrow, and all that.
Saturday. Party day, and I spent it in the back of the cabin, vomiting. Everyone else says they had a good time, which is helpful for my depression, but not by much. No, that took a major hit as I laid in Olean General Hospital and realized that I actually applied for a job last week. Like an idiot. Like an idiot with a working digestive system.
Olean Gen was adorable, by the way. Note that I am used to a massive city hospital with a warehouse-style emergency department that has like 62 beds. This place had probably 12 rooms and a handful or carts, and when they told me they were very busy I was worried for a six hour wait, as per usual at Mercy up by my house. Alas, no, that just meant they were putting me in a hall bed. I haven’t gotten so lucky as to get a hall bed at Mercy in years!
The nurses were wonderful, and the doctor was a peach. I am used to docs who come in and say “Here’s the thing were doing,” then they do it. This man asked me if we could do the thing…asked me. That means a lot, really.
Anyway, after a couple of hours and a couple of bags of saline, I was back in the cabin, sleeping. I woke up to Carey leaving and mild nausea. I realized I lost my sunglasses, so I drove to Salamanca and bought a new pair. We returned to the cabin and just kind of hung around…I still felt terrible, worse as the day went on.
Went home early Monday morning, felt like death.
Tuesday, back at Mercy. The usual question presents itself: when are you getting your surgery? Dude…I DID.
On Friday I was feeling much better and went to the doctor. They tell me, it’s a fluke. They tell me it was stress-induced. Prescription: less stress. Ha!
I feel ok now, but it was a huge blow to my mental health, not just physical. I am still upset, because last week I put out an application for a job, and that’s a really big deal for me. To think that I am still battling this full-force is just not acceptable. I have been waiting for it to be over for so long.
But maybe it is. Maybe, doc says, when I come back in a few months I won’t have had any problems, and they will declare the surgery as working. I just have to cut down on the stress.
Oh, if only I knew how.